Blog 2: Attachment Style
Attachment forms through a special emotional relationship
that involves an exchange of comfort, care, and pleasure. My first attachment was with my mother. She was a stay at home mom so she was always
around. I feel that my early attachment style
was insecure/ambivalent. I know my mom
didn’t always jump and coming running when I needed something. She believed in letting us children cry it
out sometimes. I feel that we were
always fed and changed when it was needed but if we were fussy she wouldn’t always
comfort me. I know that it really didn’t
bother me when she left but I know when my dad left for work that I would come
out of bed to say goodbye at three in the morning. I wasn’t really worried to much about
strangers and I would warm up to people pretty quick making sure it was okay by
my parents. I definitely had the attitude when I was younger that I wasn’t sure
that I could count of people when I need them.
I feel like my adult attachment style is a bit of secure and
a bit of anxious/preoccupied. I feel
that I have a secure attachment at times because it is pretty easy to become
emotionally close with others. I don’t really
worry about others accepting me. If someone
doesn’t like me well that sucks for them I don’t care. I have a very positive view of myself and
positive view on others. I feel that I have
an anxious/preoccupied attachment style at time because I tend to seek high
levels of intimacy, approval, and responsiveness from my partner at times. I typically have doubts with my current almost
relationship because I do want it to work out and I don’t want to be hurt. I don’t really see myself as clingy but Jacob
does at times because we only have three to six days together a month and I want
to spend every minute of those days with him because the other 25 days I’m
almost four hours away. The final thing
that I see is that I have high levels of emotional expressiveness, worry, and
impulsive because of the long distance relationship that we are trying to
have.
Attachment forms through a special emotional relationship
that involves an exchange of comfort, care, and pleasure. My first attachment was with my mother. She was a stay at home mom so she was always
around. I feel that my early attachment style
was insecure/ambivalent. I know my mom
didn’t always jump and coming running when I needed something. She believed in letting us children cry it
out sometimes. I feel that we were
always fed and changed when it was needed but if we were fussy she wouldn’t always
comfort me. I know that it really didn’t
bother me when she left but I know when my dad left for work that I would come
out of bed to say goodbye at three in the morning. I wasn’t really worried to much about
strangers and I would warm up to people pretty quick making sure it was okay by
my parents. I definitely had the attitude when I was younger that I wasn’t sure
that I could count of people when I need them. 
I feel like my adult attachment style is a bit of secure and
a bit of anxious/preoccupied. I feel
that I have a secure attachment at times because it is pretty easy to become
emotionally close with others. I don’t really
worry about others accepting me. If someone
doesn’t like me well that sucks for them I don’t care. I have a very positive view of myself and
positive view on others. I feel that I have
an anxious/preoccupied attachment style at time because I tend to seek high
levels of intimacy, approval, and responsiveness from my partner at times. I typically have doubts with my current almost
relationship because I do want it to work out and I don’t want to be hurt. I don’t really see myself as clingy but Jacob
does at times because we only have three to six days together a month and I want
to spend every minute of those days with him because the other 25 days I’m
almost four hours away. The final thing
that I see is that I have high levels of emotional expressiveness, worry, and
impulsive because of the long distance relationship that we are trying to
have. 
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